Which is best ? Is it love marriage or arrange marriage ?
Love marriage Vs Arrange marriage |
Marriage is an institution that is considered successful , if it lasts lifelong .There are different customs and traditions that are followed in different societal. In Indian society , arranged marriages are known to exist since ages.
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Thc structure of the Indian society is built up in such a way that first preference is given to the family values and the individual ' s choice follows after . Respect towards elders and the conservative mind set paves the way for arranged marriages.
Women are generally restricted to the boundaries of homes environment and are prohibited to move independently in the Society. Therefore impossible for them
Love marriage |
Girl's consent is not considered compulsory in orthodox society .Even the young boys are also expected mutely follow the decision taken by elders related to marriage .On the other hand Love marriages are considered more of as western influence .The concept is now acceptable in the modern society.
Love marriage is more acceptable and comprehensible to the modern generation.
It helps the duo to know each other well, before taking the crucial decision of life. On one hand, love marriages grants the opportunity to choose the partner but the responsibility of choosing the right person is also laid on the shoulders of the couple only.
On arranged marriages, the burden and responsibility of choosing the right person is shared by elders of the family.
Support is generally missing in love marriage. When the two unknown individuals come together to tie the nuptial knots, they don't have any expectations from each other. Knowing and understanding each other takes a significant duration of time. And during this period they learn to compromise and accept each other as they are.
But in case of love marriage there are higher expectations from both the sides.
Many couples find it hard to adapt to the changing scenario and expect the things to move in the same direction as they were before marriagd .Marriage is an institution that is considered successful , if it lasts lifelong .
Love marriage is more acceptable and comprehensible to the modern generation.
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On arranged marriages, the burden and responsibility of choosing the right person is shared by elders of the family.
Support is generally missing in love marriage. When the two unknown individuals come together to tie the nuptial knots, they don't have any expectations from each other. Knowing and understanding each other takes a significant duration of time. And during this period they learn to compromise and accept each other as they are.
But in case of love marriage there are higher expectations from both the sides.
Many couples find it hard to adapt to the changing scenario and expect the things to move in the same direction as they were before marriagd .Marriage is an institution that is considered successful , if it lasts lifelong .
Of course, the conversation plays an important role for this.
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